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Our guiding values

Girls2The following seven values guide all decisions and actions of Hearts & Homes for Youth:

  1. Family is the best support system and the root of our identities. We care for our youth in a stable, disciplined, nurturing space, doing all that we can to provide a homelike environment and family while they are in our care. We also provide family therapy, in addition to individual and group therapy, to help build relationships with immediate or extended family members.  Sometimes family relationships are built with foster parents or with friends – the important thing is that the youth understand they have a support system when they leave our care.
  2. Community is fundamental to our happiness, motivation, and well-being. It provides us with a sense of belonging, a sense of responsibility, and the assurance of support when we are in need. We help the youth develop a sense of community through group activities, outings, and therapy. We help the youth understand their place in the community such as through volunteer activities, getting them into school, getting them into the workforce, and inviting mentors and volunteers to spend time with the youth.
  3. Dignity, the sense of pride in oneself, is critical to the ability of the youth in our care to get themselves back on their feet and back on the right track. Activities such as the Princess Party and Kings of Style Party are examples of how we help the youth develop their dignity but it is a priority every day, in every interaction.
  4. Fairness in the way our youth are treated is important because they are building an understanding of their place in the community and they need to realize that they have the same rights and obligations as everyone else.
  5. Opportunities for the youth to engage in cultural, educational, recreational, vocational, and social activities are character building experiences that are fundamental to self discovery and success in life.
  6. Respect is critical to the development of one’s self esteem, self confidence, and self worth as well to their ability to be respectful in kind.
  7. Trust is earned; we work to earn the trust from our youth, so they believe that we have their best interests at heart. In turn, we trust that the youth will become ever more dedicated to themselves and their futures.

Hearts & Homes on the Hill

4Today Hearts & Homes held a reception at the House Office Building in Annapolis where we shared our work with old friends and new supporters. We enjoyed a delicious barbecue lunch provided by Red, Hot & Blue and spoke with Maryland’s delegates, senators, aides, and interns about our programs, the youth we serve, and how they can get involved.

The reception was held in Room 170, hosted by Hearts & Homes supporter Delegate Kirill Reznick. We were fortunate to have the support of his engaging staff members who helped us greet guests such as delegates Brett Wilson, Barrie Ciliberti, Kevin Hornberger, Tony Knotts,  Seth Howard, Angela Angel, Johnny Mautz, Diana Fennel, Vanessa Atterbeary, David Moon, Guy Guzzone, Sheree Sample-Hughes, and many others.

Some of the guests wrote caring and supporting notes on a poster board for the youth. Hearts & Homes will frame this poster and hang it at our office for all the kids to see.

The children in our care understand the words of support and you can see in their eyes the difference it makes. We are grateful to the delegates, senators, aides, and interns who took the time to come learn more about Hearts & Homes and the children in our care, and for sharing their words of encouragement and support.

Before the reception, Hearts & Homes attended the Morning Session at the State House. We were very moved by one of the lines in the opening prayer: “each day is a gift, each hour a blessing.” These words align with our mission, to treat as child in our care as if they were our own, and is a great reminder that time is precious. We look forward to working together with our senators and representatives to serve our communities and to make a better tomorrow for the youth in our care.

 

Sharing cases of love

20150304_110058_resizedComfort Cases is a charity organization founded by adoptive father of four Rob Chasteen-Scheer. Rob, himself a former foster youth, decided to be a foster parent and was startled when two foster children came to his home with all of their belongings fit in two trash bags.

Rob recalled, “The night of Amaya and Makai’s arrival, we took the siblings shopping and Amaya picked out a pink Cinderella nightgown. She was thrilled to choose it on her own.  Later that night, we watched her from the doorway, looking at herself from every angle in the mirror. Amaya had a smile that was brighter than the sun; she was in her brand new pajamas that were only hers.”

Rob and his husband welcomed two more foster youth into their home, and they too arrived with nothing more than a trash bag full of used clothing. From this, Rob was inspired to found Comfort Cases, to provide youth entering foster care with something comforting, of their own.

Rob says, “With the staggering number of children that enter the foster care system, we as a community can make a difference while they are on their journey.”

Comfort Cases cites that thousands of children in the Washington Metropolitan Region enter the foster-care system each year. Most carry little more than the clothes on their backs.

Today Comfort Cases came to Hearts & Homes with 95 comfort cases to pass on to our kids. Comfort Cases has been a generous supporter of Hearts & Homes for quite some time, supplying us with comfort cases containing a pajama set, stuffed animal, toiletries, a blanket, art supplies, and a journal for the foster youth in our care.

Comfort Cases is on a mission to make sure that no child arrives at a foster home with nothing of their own. There are a staggering number of children in the foster care system and we can make a difference in their lives. Click here if you would like to support Comfort Cases with a monetary or in-kind donation.

The value of reading together

reading-across-americaReading is a fundamental tool to function in society and a vital skill to succeed in school and the workplace. Reading is one of the ways we learn and discover. At Hearts & Homes, we believe reading together is a great way to spend time with your kids, support their development, and build a stronger relationship.

Reading to toddler or preschool-age children, especially between the ages of two and five, is critical for their development. Reading to your kids can help them develop basic speech skills, communication skills, logical reasoning skills, ability to concentrate, memory retention, and a higher aptitude for learning.

The importance and benefits of reading do not end. Throughout our lives, reading fosters our imagination, introduces us to new ideas, and empowers us.

Reading is good and it is a great way to spend time with your kids. We suggest you that ask your son or daughter what they are reading, or ask them what they think would be a great book to read. After reading the same book, you can discuss the story, the characters, the issues that came up, and how the characters dealt with challenges.

Reading books with your kids is an opportunity to spend time together, enjoy each other’s company, have something to talk about, develop a ritual, and maintain open lines of communication while your kids grow up.

Check out the links below to read about family book clubs and to learn more about how you can start your own group!

Kemp Mill tours the nation’s capital

FullSizeRenderIn early December, the young men at Kemp Mill Group Home for Boys were taken to Washington, D.C. to visit historic memorials. Led by Counselors Rodney Henderson and Roger Smith, the boys visited the Lincoln Memorial, the Washington Monument, the MLK Jr. Monument, and the Korean War Memorial.

The boys were grateful for the trip; for all of them, it was their first time being in Washington, D.C. Before the day visit to the capital finished, the boys were already asking counselors to plan another trip to visit the Smithsonian museums, especially the National Air and Space Museum and National Museum of Natural History.

The trip was a spur of the moment decision by staff, to get the youth outside and give them an opportunity to learn about the nation’s capital and see some historic sites.

“These type of activities are important because they enhance our residents’learning experience as they study American history in the classroom,” said Mr. Henderson. “We want our boys to grasp the opportunities to learn, that are all around them, and for them to be inspired by the world as they make plans for their futures.”

Mr. Henderson explained that these outings and other unique experiences are opportunities for the boys to realize how many possibilities are in front of them. He also hopes that the boys learn more about community values and team building from the experiences of travelling as a group.

Food Lion Supports Hearts & Homes

FullSizeRender (2)Food Lion donated a gift certificate to Hearts & Homes for Youth on Wednesday afternoon at the Robert Oliver Place Food Lion in Columbia, MD. The donation came after community relations director Caitlin Buckley submitted a  request for support at the store.

The managers and employees at Robert Oliver Place Food Lion were glad to support Hearts & Homes for Youth and build another partnership in the community.

facesOfHunger_copy.v-2-2-5533-21328Food Lion strives to be a good neighbor and responsible corporate citizen in the communities it serves. An example of their dedication to community welfare is the “Groceries for Good” campaign Food Lion is holding through March 17. Through the campaign, when customers use their MVP card to buy five participating items, Food Lion will help provide five meals to local food banks.

Over 800 specially marked participating products in the “Groceries for Good” campaign are available for customers to buy and 100 percent of the donations benefit Feeding America. Feeding America is the leading domestic hunger-relief charity in the United States.

Food lion aims to provide 500 million meals by the end of 2020 to help solve the issue of hunger that affects many  people; so far Food Lion has donated nearly 600 million meals through in-store campaigns like “Groceries for Good,” through its food donation program, and through volunteerism.

Spring Forward: Upcoming Events

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Hearts & Homes on the Hill

On Wednesday, March 4th, from 11:00am to 1:00pm Hearts & Homes is hosting an information session in Room 170, Lowe House Building, Annapolis. Come join us for lunch and learn about our services, our kids, and how you can get involved. Food and refreshments will be provided!

Hearts & Homes for Youth is an organization dedicated to helping victimized youth. Since our founding over 50 years ago, we have served over 40,000 youth at our shelters, foster homes, and programs located across the state of Maryland. We invite you to come learn more about our organization and how you can make a difference in the life of a child.

Girls on the Green Golf Tournament

Friday, June 19, 2015
9:00am shotgun
Timbers at Troy Golf Course
Elkridge, MD

Click here to register
Fee $125 per player $500 per foursome

Join us for a fun day on the green on Friday, June 19, 2015 for our 4th annual Girls on the Green golf tournament “just fore women” at Timbers at Troy Golf Course in Howard County with a 9am tee off! You can see more on our Facebook page!

Other events in the community

The Junior Women’s Club of Chevy Chase is holding a charity wine tasting event on Saturday, March 21st from 7-9pm at Huckleberry Fine Art Gallery in Rockville. The proceeds from this event will benefit Hearts and Homes and A Wider Circle. Get your tickets to “Unwined”

The Rotary Club of Howard West is hosting their Charter Night Celebration on Saturday, March 14, from 6-10pm! Enjoy food, drinks, great company, and entertainment! Click here to register

There are many like-minded organizations holding golf tournaments this Spring. Check them out at the Maryland State Golf Associations Charity Corner

A Wider Circle will have their 2015 National Conference on Ending Poverty on Saturday, March 28, 2015 from 10:00am to 4:00pm at the Washington Convention Center. http://www.sjcs.org/careers-at-sjcs/marketing-and-fundraising-manager

St. John’s Community Services is looking for a Marketing and Fundraising Manager. If you or someone you know is interested, click here to apply. Join a great group of people working for a great cause!

Hearts & Homes Information Session at the Capital

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Please join us

Wednesday, March 4th
11:00am – 1:00pm
Lowe House Building, Room 170

Snacks and refreshments provided

Hearts & Homes for Youth is an organization dedicated to helping victimized youth. Since our founding over 50 years ago, we have served over 40,000 youth at our shelters, foster homes, and programs located across the state of Maryland. We invite you to come learn more about our organization and how you can make a difference in the life of a child.

Hearts & Homes staff look forward to speaking with your about our youth, our programs, and opportunities to get engaged.

If you have any questions, please contact Caitlin Buckley at cbuckley@heartsandhomes.org

Princess Party

PP-230x300Join us on July 17, 2015 for our annual Princess Party! The event is an opportunity for the girls and young women of Hearts & Homes for Youth to pick an outfit, get dressed up, and feel like princesses!

Hasn’t every female, at one time or another, dreamed of being “Princess for a Day”? The young ladies of HHY have that experience thanks to Susan Davis, wife of devoted HHY Board Member Larry Davis!

“I was just purging, going through my closet, and I found I had dresses,” Davis recalls. “A lot of them had tags on them, and I thought, I can do something with these dresses.”

All of that turned into Princess Party – and an entire office floor transformed into a shopping mall, with not only gowns and shoes and jewelry, but also volunteers to do hair, makeup, and even teach the girls “the walk.” Click here to read more!

At the Princess Party, our young women pick a dress or two, matching shoes and jewelry. Their makeup, hair, and nails are done by local business professionals who volunteer their time. The young women enjoy a delicious assortment of food and attention from all the guests, staff, and volunteers at the Princess Party!

At this event, Hearts and Homes is filled with giggles, happiness, and young women who felt beautiful, confident, and immeasurable self-worth.

The care and attention the volunteers afforded to our young women is priceless! If you would like to get involved, contact Vicki Valle at vicki@heartsandhomes.org 

Kings of Style Party

10303815_10153030538727112_496461201850301520_n-300x219Join us this August for our annual Kings of Style Party! The event is an opportunity for the boys and young men of Hearts & Homes for Youth to pick an outfit, get dressed up, and become kings of their own style!

We hope that the youth leave the party with a fresh sense of confidence and self worth, in addition to formal attire that they can wear to future events and job interviews!

There are many ways you can get involved, from donating gently used suits, shoes, and accessories, to being the dinner sponsor, to volunteering at the event and meeting our boys! If you would like to get involved, contact Vicki Valle at vicki@heartsandhomes.org